Not sure where in the middle of all of that he started to fantasize about me being with a black man, but the questions and suggestions got more and more frequent. About eight years ago Tom and I were separated for awhile because of marital issues, and I ended up in a resort group living situation - kind of a get away place for people dealing with personal issues. While I was there I started talking to a 30 year old black man, who was very handsome and charming. He made me laugh, I felt comfortable talking to him and he had a powerful muscular body that made me yearn to get my hands on him!
It was really a small village with a main street that looks like it came right out of a painting. The town was decorated for Christmas; all the lamp poles had colored lights running up and down them. A fresh carpet of snow blanketed the town; this place could really get you in the Christmas mood. There were so many of his family members in town there was no room for us at his parents house so Don had already made reservation at a nice local hotel. Don and I lived in New York and only had seen his family once or twice since the wedding.