The Rules Revisited I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset. At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex. To be specific, I've learned one thing - one important thing. I want to explain that one thing here, because the corresponding lesson for women is equally important. So many of the women that write to me for advice have stories that go something like this
I have received well over a thousand supportive emails from women over the last 48 hours. All women are whores. Keep in mind that I consider female anger to be the weather vane of truth and wisdom.
Most relationships experience constant struggle and are experienced more as a burden than an interdependent sharing of intimacy. The main reason of course is the individual partners level of consciousness, where his or her own negativity and judgments decrease the connection, acquaintance and love with the partner. Connected with this however is the negative aspect of the male-female polarity itself.